Friday, May 24, 2013

Friday Musings 5-25-13


Friday Musings 5-24-13

I Love a Good for Graduation Speech
It is graduation time. I love a good graduation speech. I find them very inspirational and thought-provoking. Here is one I really enjoy and I encourage you to listen to the entire speech via TED Talks.  I pulled out a couple excerpts to entice you to listen to all of it.  
Trish Olson, University of Minnesota Extension Center for Family Development Program Leader

JK Rowling 'The Fringe Benefits of Failure, and the Importance of Imagination"  


… “The knowledge that you have emerged wiser and stronger from setbacks means that you are, ever after, secure in your ability to survive. You will never truly know yourself, or the strength of your relationships, until both have been tested by adversity. Such knowledge is a true gift, for all that it is painfully won, and it has been worth more than any qualification I ever earned.”
Did you know that JK Rowling worked for Amnesty International? …..“What is more, those who choose not to empathize enable real monsters. For without ever committing an act of outright evil ourselves, we collude with it, through our own apathy.” …..
“One of the many things I learned at the end of that Classics corridor down which I ventured at the age of 18, in search of something I could not then define, was this, written by the Greek author Plutarch: What we achieve inwardly will change outer reality.”


What do I think of When I think of My Own High School Graduation?

I only had 12 girls in my high school class. When I graduated 4 were pregnant and 2 became pregnant shortly after graduation.  While this was a dramatic change in trajectory for them at 18… Years later at our 30-year class reunion I saw how these women had “emerged wiser and stronger from setbacks.” One of these classmates had become a foster mother and helped countless young women since high school graduation. She had been honored by the county for her ability to give back. Another shared how she read medical journals while a long-haul trucker to understand and then advocate for her daughter who had a severe illness. In school, reading was very difficult for her. Others were such proud grandmothers and family caregivers. They had not only survived, they had thrived.  I thought back to high school when learned about this pregnancy prevention campaign…. 



“The Chicago Department of Public Health’s Office of Adolescent and School Health has launched its 2013 teen pregnancy prevention campaign that features a series of ads that challenge gender roles related to teen pregnancy and parenthood.
The campaign features attention-grabbing images of teenage boys depicted as pregnant to spark conversations among adolescents and adults on the issue of teen pregnancy and to make the case that teen parenthood is more than just a girl’s responsibility.  The ads are currently displayed on public transit buses, trains, platforms and bus shelters in Chicago.” At the website you will see additional attention-grabbing photos.
There is good news emerging regarding teen pregnancy.

Key findings
·         Teen birth rates fell at least 15% for all but two states during 2007–2011—the most recent period of sustained decline; rates fell 30% or more in seven states.
·         Declines in rates were steepest for Hispanic teenagers, averaging 34% for the United States, followed by declines of 24% for non-Hispanic black teenagers and 20% for non-Hispanic white teenagers.
·         The long-term difference between birth rates for non-Hispanic black and Hispanic teenagers has essentially disappeared, and by 2011 their rates were similar.
·         Rates for Hispanic teenagers fell 40% or more in 22 states and the District of Columbia (DC); rates dropped at least 30% in 37 states and DC.

Finally… A Lovely Note from Suzanne Sheridan – We wish her well
Namaste Family Development Friends~
You probably heard that I left Extension last week to simplify our family life a bit and be more available for our daughter during this critical year of adjustment.  So far, Shilpa is doing very well and I am thankful for all of the support and prayers you sent to us as we embarked on this great adventure.  We are also overwhelmed by the beautiful quilt and book that Cindy and Rosi delivered on your behalf.  It is so meaningful to receive this group effort and to read your stories and see photos of your families.  As I page through the book, I am reminded of the fun we had on our Mexican adventure a few years ago too!
Thank you for 15 great years of learning, engaging, working and teaching with me at Extension.  I am grateful to bring all of the wisdom that I have gained to future destinations where life will take me. 
Best of luck to all and keep up the good work.
Suzanne Sheridan
Suzanne.Sheridan@gmail.com

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